Power and Church
In her book Trauma and Grace: Theology in a Ruptured World Serene Jones recounts the story of a woman who had been abused and her experience with communion. Communion brought back flashbacks of trauma—more than just unpleasant memories, but the intrusive, uncontrollable, fragmented memories from post-traumatic stress disorder. Clearly, this is not to question the serving of communion or even the manner in which we do so—but is there “a safe space” for this woman in the church service or the church building?
I am not saying there is not space. I do think that there is a large level of power in the typical church, as much as we might cringe at that. It is a corporate entity. There is a planned structure that moves forward. The church is the one offering help to those in the community. These are not bad—in fact, they may be good—but they do create a power that we have to be aware of. Organizationally, there is already a power imbalance when the woman enters the church. The abused woman comes in and may see herself as just another recipient of help or pity. She may feel that there is no place for her or that she might disturb the continuity of the service. She may feel unrecognized, unknown, and silenced.
The power imbalance is only heightened by societal perceptions. Especially in modern America , the church is seen to be more of a corporate entity or a non-profit than a living body of Christ, an organic entity. Church can be seen as the place where people have it all together, or need to have it all together. It can be seen as a mere tradition. It is criticized for hypocrisy. It may be seen as offering just one path to truth. It can be seen as a group of fundamentalist conservatives who are adamant about a few issues and intolerant. Some of these may be true, some may not be. There are many churches which are not described by the above. But the social perception can exist. Many of these social perceptions bring different connotations or ideas of power.
How does the American church present itself to the powerless? Does it show itself as powerful? Does it work along the power claims of the world? Is it seen as the doctor rather than as a hospital full of sinners and full of the powerless, full of people who have surrendered their power to be strong in Christ?
"I came to you in weakness and fear, and with much trembling. My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit's power, so that your faith might not rest on men's wisdom, but on God's power" (2 Cor. 2:3-5).
You have some great insights here, Gillian. It gives me the picture that local churches (at least in America) can be viewed as big bullies. One of my school counseling texts defines bullying as "a pattern of unprovoked and deliberate negative behavior with intent to harm in the presence of a real or perceived imbalance of power." Your blog speaks directly to this power imbalance. I am currently studying Micah, which reminds us of God's requirements: to act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with our God. Acting justly means (in part) to look out for those who are hurting & powerless. It seems that we look out for them--only in that we look out so we can avoid them. And, of course, I am speaking in generalities. There are people in the church who have big hearts toward the hurting. Still, we--I--need to beware of prideful attitudes and rather take time to walk humbly with God. Studies show that the best way to interrupt the cycle of bullying is to intervene. I am not sure what that looks like in the church, but I think it starts with awareness. Thank you for starting this process in me.
ReplyDeleteKeep intervening, Gillian. The bully needs to be brought down!
Serena Jone's book helped me see a different picture of church--how one woman viewed communion. The talk of the body and blood of Christ brought on flashbacks from trauma. It is more than just thoughts or memories, but for those with post-traumatic stress disorder they are incapacitated and controlled by their memories when something triggers a flashback. It was a new picture of the havocs of sin on the grace of communion.
ReplyDeleteI also had my eyes opened to power in Honduras. I was the lone missionary, in a new culture, learning a language, out of my element--yet, I realized how much POWER I had when I felt so powerless. The Hondurans value what is foreign so much--I had more authority and power than I realized at first. It was almost frightening when I realized that... But it creates unique problems down there, when out of respect or intimidation by the power the missionaries have (resources, education, the ability to leave, technology, recognized authority, English, etc.) they think the missionaries will do a better job than they, and they surrender their responsiblities... Again, it was eye opening to see power dynamics in the church and among missionaries when one doesn't first think of power.